6 Things I Learned Before 18th

1. Wait for the guy who wants to know you, the one who wants to know your mind. Wait for the guy who wants to read your deepest thoughts, who asks to hear the stories behind your scars, who listens to your passions, as well as your cries of stress. Don't settle for small talk or "what's up". Wait for the guy who wants to know you better than you know yourself.

2. Love your parents. Life changes. A lot. You won't come home from school everyday to see your mom cooking dinner and your dad watching the news. The way you see things won't stay this way forever. So don't yell at your parents and pray that the day you leave for college will come sooner- trust me, you'll wish for these simple days at home when you're halfway across the country with only a picture frame to hold.

3. Learn to love yourself. Your flat chest, your freckled face, your curly hair, your muscular legs. Whatever it is, you're perfectly made. Completely set aside from every other person. That in itself is something to love.

4. Cry if you need to. Don't let people tell you that crying is weak; it's healthy. Sometimes the world gives us too much at once and it's okay to let it out.

5. If you find a best friend- a true best friend- never let her go. Some family is place in your life differently. You may go your separate ways but your love will stay the same. Buy an airplane ticket to visit her your sophomore year of college, save up the money. I promise it will be worth it. You will see her and although her hair color is darker and you can hardly remember her voice, somehow nothing will have changed. If you find a friend like this, do not trade her for the world.

6. Change is the only constant in life. Accept change, and don't let it scare you. These years ahead are the craziest of your life. Within a few months, you could be laughing in a coffee shop with eight new friends from eight different cities. You could be in love, or falling out of it. You could be on a train to London or Indiana. Anything can happen. Yes, change is scary, but change is the only thing keeping us alive

words by: @angelmpoetry

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I couldn't agree more

Singapore, May 2015

It was a great experience, you know, spent holidays with your best friends. Throwback dulu yaaah. We went there for five days. Hari pertama kita sampai Changi sekitar jam 12 siang langsung ke hotel, terus jam 4an jalan ke Orchard. We shopped a bit and then looking for a meal coz we starvinggg af as I remembered it hahaha. 

And then, day 2, Universal Studio. The best playground I've ever visited!!! (it would be Disneyland kalo gue pernah kesana before haha) di universal kita puas-puasin foto sana-sini dulu baru main haha. Waktu itu, if I'm not mistaken, gue, dinda, nadya main ke semua zona deh. You can google all the zones in USS, but Far-Far Away is my favorite. Still the same day, 21th May, we went back to hotel after capek dari USS. Malamnya kita ke Lau Pa Sat, tempat makan gitu terus banyak pilihan makanannya. 

The next day, we went to Marina Bay Sands, Gardens by The Bay, Merlion, pokoknya semua landmark singapur deh haha. We even try the famous Singapore one dollar ice cream. Pokoknya hari itu hari berfoto (as we planned it). But, still, foto yang paling banyak itu foto dari USS.

The other day, karena kita cuman teens yang males bangun pagi, kita mulai explore jam 12. First, kita ke Haji Lane street buat jalan-jalan sebentar terus ke Orchard lagi buat real shopping hahahhha. Abis itu kita sampai hotel jam 7 an gitu, tapi jam 9an nya pergi lagi ke Haji Lane buat ngopi-ngopi kecil yang kebertulan not too far from our hotel. And that was the last night of our holiday.

Besoknya waktu balik ke Indonesia, gue sama sahabat gue pisah soalnya beda flight, lagian gue ke tanggerang dulu, mereka langsung ke bandung. Dan waktu di changi, gue ketemu temen ayah yang ngasih oleh-oleh banyak sekali teman-teman :) chocolates in many brands and types, YAY!

Love,

Shida

Girls

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Hi it's been a long time to not post anything here. School have been taking all my time. No more novels, naps, and sundays. My life now just like belajar, pr, les, belajar, les lagi, pr lagi. But you know what I don't mind 'cause I got my girls beside me.

Can't believe it's been 15th months we be friends. Pokoknya kelas 11 udah paling akrab banget, ya ngga? Mulai dari nonton bareng, mabal ke kantin bareng, cabut les bareng biar bisa nongkrong ke kafe, muterin bandung bareng, nyanyi bareng. It's like we're sisters from another mother.

Now we're in twelve grade,and next year we will facing national exams. and graduate, going to university, and so on. Jadi banyakin belajar bareng sama make good memories yaa :)

"We'll be friends forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet
'Even longer', Pooh answered."

Physically, mentally, and emotionally tired.

Do you ever feel like you just want to leave everything here and going somewhere?Life is getting too hard. School makes me prepare for my future but left no space for my present. All I want to do is laying for couple hours and not worry about a single damn thing. And there's something else bothering my mind. Him. I need him to be here with me, and tell me that everything is gonna be alright. Is that too much to ask for?



PS: I always think of you in every single time you're not here.

We're in the class A team

New class, new dreams, new friends, new memories.

cheers for @SC1ENCE2215 ;;)

Puncak

tea garden

Life is all about to choose

Life is all about to choose. Life is an option and we have to choose it whether it's good or good, bad or bad, or maybe good or bad. And in every option that we choose, there's always a risk behind it. Like it or not, we must take the risk.

From the option that we choose and from the risk that we take, there must be something worth fighting for. So, don't ever feel regret when you choose your own way. Something's good waiting at the end and when it's not good, then it's not the end.

Well, then I have something that worth fighting for. I choose it, and I'll take the risk.

reblog from Nadhira's blog

"Choosing, however simple the choices are, is never really that simple. Bukanlah sekedar menjawab antara kertas atau plastik, teh atau kopi, hitam atau putih. Karena suka atau tidak, Choosing is like balancing the idiosyncrasy of ourselves with the mere existence of others. Seperti bersikap pretentious dan toleran pada saat bersamaan. Dalam keserhanaan pilihan itu dan kompleksitas proses memilih,terbentang fakta yang kita semua sudah tau: setiap pilihan yang kita ambil memiliki efek domino. Memilih satu hal akan memengaruhi setiap hal-hal kecil ataupun besar yang berkaitan dengan pilihan itu, termasuk orang-orang di sekeliling kita. Jadi kita tidak bisa menyalahkan orang-orang terdekat kita jika bertanya kenapa kita memilih sesuatu , kan?"

Ika Natassa - Divortiare

Here I am. Sitting in my room, hoping I did the right thing. Aku baru aja ambil raport sama ibu. Hasilnya memuaskan, sangat memuaskan. Dan saat bu Lilis tanya mau ke IPA atau IPS, aku ragu. Selama setahun ini aku bulak-balik ganti jurusan. Tadinya IPA, terus IPS, terus IPA lagi, terus IPS lagi. Tapi tadi waktu bu Lilis nanya, from the deepest of my heart, it whisper Science. So there it goes, aku calon anak IPA.

There's a difference between what's right and what's best. The difficult part is sometimes choosing between the two. Ga ada salahnya kok, mau IPA sama IPS sama aja. What important is, you can make money and yourself useful when you jump into the real world. Aku tadinya mau IPS untuk jalur undangan ke Akutansi UNPAD (amiiiiiiiinnnn), tapi kayaknya engga deh. Aku ikut IPC aja, do'ain ya!

P.S: Terimakasih ya Allah, aku dapet ranking 1. I promise I'll be a better person. :)

Good Time

1. Put your music on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS!
4. Tag 12 friends who might enjoy doing the memo as well as the person you got the memo from.

1. If someone says "are you okay?" you say..

Layu sebelum berkembang - Nathan Hartono

2. What would best describe your personality?

Cold - Aqualung ft. Lucy Schwartz

3. What do you like in a guy/girl?

I knew you were trouble - Taylor Swift

4. How do you feel today?

Jump then fall - Taylor Swift

5. What is your motto?

Take a bow - Rihanna

6. What is your life's purpose?

Walk away - Christina Aguilera

7. What do your friends think of you?

Misery - Maroon 5

8. What do you think about very often?

Little things - One Direction

9. What is 2+2?

Ours - Taylor swift

10. What do you think of your best friends?

Autumn leaves - Ed Sheeran

11. What do you think of the person you like?

Lebih indah - Adera

12. What is your life story?

River - JKT 48

13. What do you want to be when you grow up?

How could you - The Triangle

14. What will they play at your funeral?

Her - Robbert Pattinson 

15. What will you dance to at your wedding?

That should be me - Justin Bieber

16. What do you think when you see the person you like?

Forever and always - Taylor Swift

17. What is your hobby/interest?

Bloom - The Paper Kites

18. What is your biggest secret?

Awake all night - Cody Simpson

19. What's the worst thing that could happen?

Fly on the wall - Miley Cyrus

20. What makes you cry?

Arms - Christina Perri

21. What makes you laugh?

Treasure - Bruno Mars

22. What is the one thing you regret?

The story of us - Taylor Swift

23. Will you ever get married?

Lovesong - Adele

24. What scares you most?

Everything at once - Lenka

25. What will you post this as?

Good Time - Owl City ft. Carly Rae Jepsen

Well, I tag you. And you. And you. And you. And you. And you. And you. And you. And you. And you. And you. Last but not least, you. ;)

How broken I really am

You feel so lonely.
And you start to cry.
But nobody understand.

Nobody sees.
Just how broken you really are.

Lazy Sunday

Helloooooo
Minggu pagi ini cocok banget ya buat bermalas-malasan, membayar semua utang tidur yang seminggu terakhir itu kurang banget gara-gara tugas tak punya hati itu :)) But here I am, stuck in G town. Ga sempat membayar hutang (tidur seharian). Some life huh?

After 1 hour playing with cameroid, boredom finally hit me. Must do something. See yaaaaaa :*

Moga Bunda Disayang Allah

Bunda,

Saat kami bayi, engkau orang yang terakhir tidur setelah dunia lelap,

Bahkan boleh jadi tidak tidur, agar kami bisa nyenyak, 

Dan engkau pula yang pertama kami lihat saat kami terjaga.

Bunda,

Saat kami kanak-kanak, engkau orang terakhir yang putus rasa sabarnya,

Bahkan boleh jadi tidak pernah, walau orang-orang lain telah jengkel setengah mati,

Dan engkau pula yang pertama membesarkan hati.

Bunda,

Saat kami gagal, engkau orang yang terakhir berputus asa, 

Bahkan boleh jadi tidak pernah, meski seluruh dunia sudah berhenti berharap,

Dan engkau pula yang pertama menghibur.

Bunda,

Saat kami ragu-ragu, engkau orang terakhir yang hilang keyakinan,

Bahkan boleh jadi tidak pernah pergi, meski sekitar telah menyerah,

Dan engkau pula yang pertama berbisik tentang janji-janji.

Walaupun,

Saat kami besar, boleh jadi engkau orang terakhir yang kami hubungi,

Bahkan boleh jadi tidak pernah, karena alasan sibuk atau apalah.

Walaupun,

Saat kami bahagia, boleh jadi engkau orang terakhir yang tahu,

Bahkan boleh jadi benar-benar amat terlambat, karena alasan tidak sempat atau apalah.

Bunda, 

Diantara bisik-bisik do'amu, sungguh terselip beribu nama kami,

Dan boleh jadi itulah yang membawa kamihingga seperti hari ini,

Engkau orang terakhir yang akan berhenti mendo'akan kami,

Bahkan boleh jadi tidak pernah berhenti hingga, akhir hayat.

Dan sungguh, engkau pula orang yang pertama mengucapkan kata Amin bagi kami.

*Puisi Moga Bunda Disayang Allah. -Tere Liye

5/2/13

bengeeuuuuttt-_-

Sorry fotonya ada beberapa yang agak ehmmm :p

Dewata Island, Bali: Day 3 and 4

Day 3

Sanur

Dewata Island, Bali: Day 1 and 2

I just have arrived from Baliiiiiii!! I love Bali, who doesn't? We (me and my family) stayed for 4 days in Sanur Beach Hotel. On the first day, March 28th, kita berangkat dari Bandung ke Bali flight jam 2an. Transit in Surabaya and we landed in Ngurah Rai airport at 8 pm WITA, jadiii cari taksi langsung check in ke hotel soalnya udah malem dan cape bangeeet.

Day 2

Unforgettable Moment

Here are some pictures of us ;;)

Dufan,

Akunya ga kefotoo :|

Treasure Land Temple Of Fire,

Tornadoooo,

still alive...

Hey! Miss me? School has been crazy all daaaaay-_- UTS mulai jumat ini dan guru-guru juga berlomba-lomba untuk ngasih tugas terbanyak, tiada hari tanpa tugas di bulan februari kemaren. I'm pretty sure 'tired' is just part of my personality description. Yaaaaak cukup sekian curhatnya. Anyway, i have nothing to talk about. Wish me luck for my exams. Talk soon. Byeeeeee :-)

Happy New Year 2013!

I know it's a little too late but..... HAPPY NEW YEAR! :)